You won’t move forward until you have a guarantee. Without trial and error, we don’t learn. Is the reason you won’t move forward without a guarantee is because you don’t know how to learn from mistakes? You might look stupid…

Are you stuck in a rut of self-pity and hopelessness? Is this because you aren’t willing to put in the effort to succeed? Or because you would rather be lazy?

Is “accountability” not in your vocabulary? Is this because you would rather be rescued or because you don’t think you can succeed? © Tessa Cason, 2021. Sign up for the newsletter to receive freebies and to be notified of FREE Kindle Downloads: Sign up…

Do you know what it takes to be in a romantic, loving relationship? If not, is this about your fear of rejection, of loving and being loved, or maybe about relationship skills? Do you know how to love? Do you…

Is it safer to avoid than to take a risk? Is this because you don’t believe you have the skills necessary to take the risk? Or maybe you believe you would fail if you tried because you tried in the…

Do you think it is inconsiderate not to do what others ask you to do for them? Is this about the fear of being rejected? Does your worth come from being the “go-to-guy?” Or maybe it is about needing to…

Do you feel there is nothing good about mistakes? Do you have to be perfect and do everything perfectly? Are you so embarrasses when you make a mistake that you are not able to self-correct? Does mistake = failure? Do…

Do you hold onto painful memories? If this so you won’t forget the lesson, be a way to martyr or feel sorry for youself, and/or an excuse not to have to move forward with your life? © Tessa Cason, 2021.…

Do you  have a high level of expectation for yourself? If so, is this to keep you safe, make you feel “better than.” or to set yourself up to fail? Do high expectations give you a reason to self destruct?…

Does your lack of success confirm your inadequacy, make you a failure? Is this about self-worth, success, learning new skills, and/or working toward a goal? © Tessa Cason, 2021. Sign up for the newsletter to receive freebies and to be…